There is no "one right way to God" as many of our religions have misguided us to believe. These beliefs were created to keep us under control through the ambiguity of fear. Whether this was done consciously or not is irrelevant, because it is simply a part of our collective evolution.
In understanding the difference between religiosity and spirituality we can then decipher the difference between fear and love, and the difference between belief and truth.
While I define religious abuse as physical, sexual and human rights abuses that are justified by religious dogma and religious opportunists, spiritual abuse is abuse of the human spirit.